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Client became too nervous in company so that his hands started shaking. And the more his hands were shaking, the more nervous he became. Especially when he had the feeling that people were aware of his hands shaking, it became worse.

Mind that this was no social phobia. Client went everywhere and mingled despite his bad feeling. There was some fear for the nasty feeling but this did not prevent him from doing things yet in the usual way. You can only speak of a phobia when someone is so afraid that he or she will definitely avoid such situations.

With a number of private NLP sessions I taught client to relax more in this kind of situation so that he became less nervous.

Without doubt something of late but I encounter this regularly nowadays. Fear of terrorists. In this case client did not dare going to Amsterdam Central Station and Schiphol Airport. She was also afraid that something would happen in her village.

With one private NLP session, I taught client to apply the techniques from the report How to Stop Negative Feelings very well so that she was able to stop a bad, negative feeling of fear and to realize that everything went well if she went to places like the Central Station and Schiphol.

Client had two problems. On the one hand she dare not leave her house because she was afraid of the alley opposite her house. On the other hand she had a strong social phobia. On the motorway as well as in crowded circumstances she had the feeling she couldn't get out so that panic broke out. The fear of the fear had become so great that she avoided these kinds of situations. A clear case of phobia.

For her job she needed to be outdoors regularly, travelling and appearing under busy circumstances. In other words, the situation was very annoying. Fortunately, she proved to be able to overcome the phobias very well with two private NLP sessions. Not only did she walk around the village in a relaxed way again but she was even disappointed if the back-up wasn't on her side of the motorway, so that she couldn't experience how easy it was for her nowadays to be in a back-up.

After having experienced a serious car accident in which his mother had lost her life, client was troubled by a post traumatic stress disorder because of which his private life and his work did not work out well. Besides, client had very little idea of what to do with his life.

With two NLP private sessions I taught client to let go of the past, leave it behind and feel good again. Besides, with a number of techniques, we succeeded in giving direction to his life again so that he has clearer objects in sight.

Client had too much fear and stress during speeches and public appearances. As manager with the ambition to get on, this fear withheld him from taking the next step in his career. Besides, client had problems with swallowing when eating in the company of people, during canteen lunches as well as eating out.

As a consequence he always took care during meals to have sufficient liquids to wash down the food and to order dishes that were easy to swallow. Besides, he was so busy with all these worries and the connected feeling of fear that he paid too little attention to the subject of conversation.

With two private NLP sessions I taught client to relax for a public appearance and to take care to be relaxed in going there and performing with the same good feeling. Besides, I taught him to relax during meals so that he again enjoyed lunching in the canteen and attending business dinners.

For some time client had been depressed because of the death of his father. Of course a death in the family is one of the most grievous happenings in a man’s life. In such a case it is not a matter of feeling good but to mourn in a suitable way.

Client however, overdid the mourning. It went on a longer time than was good for him and would have been wished for by his deceased father. With a number of private NLP sessions I taught client to definitely round off the period of mourning and to pick up the rest of his life again in a good mood.

Client felt bad because of a nasty divorce and fights again now with her new partner. As well-known Dutchwoman, her divorce troubles had been widely published in the gossip columns. This did not make the situation any easier.

With the techniques from the report Dealing with Negative Feelings and a number of private NLP sessions, client learned how to manage on her own to feel comfortable and good again.

Client had a fear of driving a car and for that matter to go away far from home. Not only did client see a lot of danger in the traffic but there was also the fear of the emergency forces not getting there in time in case something would happen. Because of this, client preferred staying close to home and avoiding the motorway. Besides, client had a fear of flying.

It was obvious it wasn't a case of social phobia. Client had no trouble meeting people. In addition, you can only speak of phobia when you feel so afraid of something that you have no intention at all to act. In this case client had decided to hike through Canada for a year in order to leave these problems behind her for good.

With two private NLP sessions client could drive on the motorway again and she flew to Canada reasonably relaxed.

After client had been fired in spite of many years of loyal service, he developed a severe social phobia. He no longer dared visiting other people or going to crowded places such as theatres. At the same time, he was very phobic of driving a car, a combination often indicating social phobia. Client completely panicked on tall bridges and in tunnels.

What his fear was especially, as with many people with social phobia, was the awkward feeling that there was no escape. Whether it is a social event that you cannot get away from without being seen as a fool, or a motorway that you cannot get off because there are no exits or parking space, the urge for survival wants to see an escape in case of danger .

With a number of private NLP sessions client appeared to be able again to go to places like the theatre and to drive a car again.